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31 Day Gratitude Experiment – Week 3

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I’m still going 🙂

Week 3 of my ’31 Day Gratitude Experiment’. Some are general things that I’m grateful for, looking deeper into life and others I had experienced that day.

Day 14

I am grateful for:

  • Amazing films and t.v series there are to entertain me
  • Being able to make my own decisions.
  • The opportunity to better myself
  • Being capable of doing things I set out to do.
  • A good nights sleep.

Day 15

I am grateful for:

  • The lessons I’ve learned from difficult relationships.
  • Being alive.
  • The ability to learn more and build on my knowledge.
  • Being open-minded.
  • Being accepting.

Day 16

I am grateful for:

  • Watching the sun rise.
  • Endless opportunities.
  • The hobbies and interests I have.
  • Rarely being bored.
  • Being happy in life.

Day 17

I am grateful for:

  • The little reminders of how lucky I am.
  • The little challenges in life.
  • For ice cream. My ultimate comfort food.
  • My favourite YouTubers that make entertaining vlogs.

Day 18

I am grateful for:

  • The people who fight for my country.
  • The people carrying out research to help put an end to various illnesses.
  • The ability to look forward.
  • Being positive.

Day 19

I am grateful for:

  • Getting together with great friends.
  • Hugs.
  • Meeting and talking to new people.
  • Being a part of someone’s special day.
  • My camera for capturing memories.
  • Getting home safe late at night.

Day 20

I am grateful for:

  • How pretty everything looks when it snows.
  • The cosy open fire on a snowy day.
  • Warm clothes.
  • Not taking life too seriously.
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A Big Price to Pay for Being Different

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Every now and then you come across a story that really affects you; and the story that I am about to share with you is no exception. I have no connection what so ever to this girl or her family, I just merely want to help raise awareness about this particular tragedy and others similar and maybe some good can come of it. I blogged this story previously elsewhere a couple of years ago and have adapted it for present readers. It’s now approaching the fifth year anniversary of Sophie’s death and I feel that its more important than ever to spread the word about hate crime and help tackle the problem in the UK and around the world.

I consider myself to be an open-minded person. My taste in music varies and my style changes as often as the wind. Most importantly I am very accepting towards people I meet no matter their background, gender or culture. As the saying goes ‘never judge a book by its cover’, the same applies to people! I think open-mindedness which includes accepting change and difference is an appealing quality for a human being to have. I would like to think in this day and age that everyone was as open-minded as me although this isn’t the case.

Some people just can’t handle it! and I would describe these people as small-minded and weak. These are people who will go to any lengths to express their disgust toward anyone who appears different or has different views to themselves. The truth is, they don’t know what to expect, they judge the cover before reading the book and assume that they won’t like it.

Now having been part of the alternative scene in the past, I have met many interesting people who have established their own individual styles in order to break away from the “norm” as some people may put it. These people whether they be Goths, Rockers, Emo’s etc are probably the most intelligent and stimulating people I know. On the inside they are no different to anyone else, they just choose not to follow the same old trends. The world would be an incredibly boring place if everyone in it were the same.

Being the sort of person I am, I was sickened and saddened by a story that I had read a few years ago about a girl called Sophie who was brutally attacked along with her boyfriend by a group of teenagers they had met in a park in Lancashire. It is believed that the pair were targeted because of the unique and individual way in which they were dressed. While her boyfriend pulled through and survived the attack, Sophie sadly died on August 24th 2007. Words can’t express how angry this makes me and many others who have heard this tragic story. People shouldn’t have to live in fear because of how they dress… its insane!

Photo taken by Robert Maltby

Sophie’s family and friends have worked hard to raise awareness since her death and strive towards a less violent society by starting a campaign in her memory. The S.O.P.H.I.E campaign has a powerful message attached to it:

Stamp
Out
Prejudice
Hatred
Intolerance
Everywhere

and is growing in popularity through the fun organised events that they put on. To find out more information about the campaign or to donate to the SOPHIE LANCASTER FOUNDATION please check out the following sites:

 http://www.sophielancasterfoundation.com/

www.myspace.com/inmemoryofsophie

http://www.facebook.com/thesophielancasterfoundation